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Damon Connor Swarthout
April 30, 1998 ~ October 23, 2014 (age 16) 16 Years Old Light a Candle
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Message from Jeanne Bartlett, Dragonfly Project Volunteer
February 22, 2015 7:56 PM
I read on-line of Damon's passing. My sincerely sympathy. May the love of family & friends comfort you in your sorrow.
In the bottom of an old pond lived some grubs who could not understand why none of their groups ever came back after crawling up the stems of the lilies to the top of the water. They promised each other that the next one who was called to make the upward climb would return to tell what happened to him. Soon one of them felt an urgent impulse to see the surface; he rested himself on the top of a lily pad and went through a glorious transformation which made him a dragonfly with beautiful wings. In vain he tried to keep his promise flying back and forth over the pond. He peered down at his friends below. Then he realized that even if they could see him they would not recognize such a radiant creature as one of their number.
The fact that we cannot see our loved ones or communicate with them after the transformaiton, which we call death, is no proof that they cease to exist. -Walter Dudley Cavert (used with permission)
www.dragonflyproject.org
In the bottom of an old pond lived some grubs who could not understand why none of their groups ever came back after crawling up the stems of the lilies to the top of the water. They promised each other that the next one who was called to make the upward climb would return to tell what happened to him. Soon one of them felt an urgent impulse to see the surface; he rested himself on the top of a lily pad and went through a glorious transformation which made him a dragonfly with beautiful wings. In vain he tried to keep his promise flying back and forth over the pond. He peered down at his friends below. Then he realized that even if they could see him they would not recognize such a radiant creature as one of their number.
The fact that we cannot see our loved ones or communicate with them after the transformaiton, which we call death, is no proof that they cease to exist. -Walter Dudley Cavert (used with permission)
www.dragonflyproject.org
Message from Dave,Lesa,Hayley,Justin Hauptman
October 31, 2014 10:25 AM
We are so sorry for the loss of Damon. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Message from Katherine Folkerts
October 30, 2014 10:29 AM
SPATHIPHYLLUM was sent by Chris, Katie .
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. Chris, Katie & Morgan Folkerts "Blessed are those who mourn, For they shall be comforted." (Matthew 5:4)
Message from Bill Bruhn
October 28, 2014 12:30 PM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Bill and Joan Bruhn
Message from Karen Gartner
October 27, 2014 11:26 PM
Mark, Teresa, and Eean - Please know that the loss of Damon is felt by many. There are no words that I can say to express how sorry I am for your loss. I believe God has already welcomed him and he no longer feels pain.
Maybe some day you can smile about this, but I remember Damon loved reading magazines about cars in class. It would only take the "teacher look" for him to put away the magazine. He would give that little grin that only Damon could give and would be ready for whatever we were doing next in class. This is the memory that I have of Damon. He was a great kid and I feel fortunate to have known him and Eean. Memories are the greatest gift we have.
Maybe some day you can smile about this, but I remember Damon loved reading magazines about cars in class. It would only take the "teacher look" for him to put away the magazine. He would give that little grin that only Damon could give and would be ready for whatever we were doing next in class. This is the memory that I have of Damon. He was a great kid and I feel fortunate to have known him and Eean. Memories are the greatest gift we have.
Message from Angie Carroll
October 27, 2014 4:48 PM
Your son was such a strong young man and everyone I have talked to loved him very much. I pray that you will find peace in your hearts and the strength to get through this. Just remember that he will always be with you. This poem gives me comfort, and I hope it will give you comfort too:
Love is Infinite
It does not end
It does not diminish
And it does not change
Love is immortal and eternal
And thrives within the soul forever
Love is Infinite
It does not end
It does not diminish
And it does not change
Love is immortal and eternal
And thrives within the soul forever
Message from Nate Walker
October 27, 2014 1:46 PM
Words can do little to ease your pain in this impossibly difficult time. I will pray for you during these days of trial and tribulation.
While I didn't know Damon I survived a similar cancer, Osteosarcoma. It gives me unique perspective on what it takes to fight this disease. His strength and character must've been off the charts to do as well as he did for as long as he did. It says a lot about him to hear that he was happy, funny, and even a little silly in the midst of treatment.
My heart broke when I heard about him passing away. Even though I didn't know him I felt all over again like I was in the middle of it all, remembering just how difficult cancer is to a patient and a family. I had hoped and prayed for him to heal and be well. Unfortunately it didn't turn out that way. His death leaves a hole in many hearts, including my own, and leaves a hole in the world that will miss his joy and humor.
I will continue to pray for peace and comfort for all of you in this overwhelming time. May God's peace which passes all understanding rest on you and give you what you need now and always.
Nate
While I didn't know Damon I survived a similar cancer, Osteosarcoma. It gives me unique perspective on what it takes to fight this disease. His strength and character must've been off the charts to do as well as he did for as long as he did. It says a lot about him to hear that he was happy, funny, and even a little silly in the midst of treatment.
My heart broke when I heard about him passing away. Even though I didn't know him I felt all over again like I was in the middle of it all, remembering just how difficult cancer is to a patient and a family. I had hoped and prayed for him to heal and be well. Unfortunately it didn't turn out that way. His death leaves a hole in many hearts, including my own, and leaves a hole in the world that will miss his joy and humor.
I will continue to pray for peace and comfort for all of you in this overwhelming time. May God's peace which passes all understanding rest on you and give you what you need now and always.
Nate
Message from Rakella Wells
October 27, 2014 9:50 AM
I am so sorry for your loss of your son. I did not know him or you personally, but have followed his story/fighting his cancer. He is a very strong and inspirational young man. No words can heal your heart at this time, but know there your family and friends and many you don't even know are praying for your family. From one mother that has lost a child at age 19, (not from cancer), I am sorry you have to endure the pain and void you fee. Damon now sits next to Jesus, and will be pain free. May that knowledge help get you thru this extremly hard time, and the memories of that sweet smile keep you going strong. May God hold you all tight as you grieve. May your hearts smile when you think of him, and know you will be reunited someday. God bless you all. My deepest sympathies to your family.
Message from Sheila (Kisling) Cordry
October 27, 2014 8:49 AM
Mark and family-
I am truly sorry to hear of the passing of your son/ brother/grandson/nephew/friend! You are in my thoughts, prayers, and heart.
Sheila
I am truly sorry to hear of the passing of your son/ brother/grandson/nephew/friend! You are in my thoughts, prayers, and heart.
Sheila
Message from Jody& Dillon Pitts
October 26, 2014 11:45 PM
our prayers are with you all in your time of sadness!! Please know we are thinking of all of you and if you need anything let us know!!!! keep your heads up! he is in a good place now !
Message from Denny & Val Walton
October 26, 2014 10:25 PM
Mark & Teresa there are no words that we can say to make this any better, but as you have heard countless times already, Damon was such a special young man. Always enjoyed the nice words we exchanged over the hot rods. Please take comfort in knowing that there are a bunch of Old Hot Rodders up there in Heaven who will take good care of Damon for you. You are and will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Message from Enid & Erin Lassley
October 26, 2014 7:42 PM
Deepest sympathies from Enid and myself. I used to see the 2 brothers out playing in the yard in front of the house so what a horrible loss for the friends, family, and brother of Damon. A classmate of mine passed away in March of 1987 and he was the same age as Damon. Even this many years later, I've never forgotten him. Through the pain of death though, we keep our eyes focused firmly ahead to the time when we will see our deceased loved ones again. Live each day in their memory and honour and prepare yourself for the time when you will see them again because they will want to know what all you've done while they were away. RIP Damon
Message from Dan, Carissa, Kayla, Christian, & Charly Lufkin
October 25, 2014 10:15 PM
Our deepest sympathies to you and your family. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
Message from Lisa Wood
October 25, 2014 9:26 PM
I am so sorry, for your loss. Please know that we are thinking of you at this very difficult time. I understand, and I am praying for your comfort at this time.
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